Welcome to my website… 

Here you can find information about sexually transgressive behavior and consequences of that behavior.

Merel van Groningen is a pseudonym that I use to write my books Misleid and In mijn onschuld. This name is chosen to protect the new life I created.

My books tell my story as a fifteen year old girl and my personal experiences with sexually transgressive behavior. I change the names, but the books are based on true stories.

My first book Misleid (2008) tells the story of how I got in the hands of a loverboy/pimp . It takes the reader into the world of loverboys/pimp and how they work. In 2010 I wrote my second book about abuse in a youth institution. Since then I am primarily busy with interviews, education and awareness in schools and libraries. I tell about my past, the traumatic experiences and consequences of certain choices.

One of those is the choice nót to be a victim or to stay a victim of your past. That gave me the opportunity to work with a lot of adolescents, parents and institutions related to youth and abuse. Beautiful, fulfilling work, but very intensive.

I have seen, felt, how adolescent behavior can lead to very dangerous situations. It is not only in sexually transgressive behavior, but on many levels that puberty gets children into trouble. I travel the country to teach, talk about and work with sexually transgressive behavior.

In the menu you can find more information and contact me.

With love,

Caught in the web of a pimp.
Her tutor crossed the border between attention and love.